
"Suddenly I knew well the man who turned into a beast, I was powerless to resist and ... finally ripped kesucianku .!!!"
Once the quotes and fragments of experience, call it Flowers, who destroyed his future seoerti capital reported by a newspaper. Sad, definitely so. Imagine, a sanctity which is maintained for a long time that will only be offered to men who are legitimate as a husband, now broke out in a few moments.
Flowers not alone. There are still many other Flowers 'honey has been sucked by male beetles'. There are frustrating, not a few who 'sell' yourself out of disappointment with the treatment of an irresponsible boyfriend. As experienced by Flower (21), call it so, a student in the city of flowers that become pramunikmat in a discotheque. Dara was derived from this family to give her virginity to the man admitted that he considered good and promised to marry her. "Because I love him, I will give 'everything' to him, because he promised to marry me", he said bitterly.
But what happened? He continued angrily, "Four years of my relationship with him in vain. Especially when I told him, that I was 'incorporated' in two, he did not care even told me to abort. I was obliged. "Is this the name of love?
Survey Proves
A study was jerking all circles, conducted by the Institute for the Study of Love and Business Training Center and the humanities (LSC Pusbih). The result, nearly 97.5% female students in Yogyakarta had lost her virginity. Even more tragic, it appears that all respondents admitted to having sex outside marriage conducted without coercion consensual aliases. Well you know ...!
We've been repeatedly surprised by the results of similar studies. Starting from the research 'cohabiting' earlier in 1984, up to a lot of similar studies conducted in various cities in Indonesia. The result, make our breast stroke ... how much damage to the younger generation now.
Why did it Happen?
As funny people who have become number one in this country, 'from the eyes down to the heart, from the heart down to the pants' really very pathetic and really happened. Meaningful cues eye gets a warm welcome, greeted each other and talked, continued until the liver becomes 'click'. Separated make eating uncomfortable, do not sleep the sleep. In mind is imagined only the him, the him again.
The meeting was repeated again in the stage reveals a sense of, 'shoot', so the term youth slang now. Happy because it was for the virgin who awaited time came, he too nodded in agreement to 'get together' in joy and sorrow. There is the ardent longing if not met, there is the love that dwells in the chest. Met if there is a love that is etched in the hearts to worship ...
Was predictable, such as an advertisement, the first impression is so full of tempting further sin ... even up to handle matters that are not worthy to do such recognition Flowers and Flower earlier. Could've been going out, street slang terms with, hollow without a handle, and sorry ... then you had already guessed it, because we did not deserve to express.
Islam has been warned to not approach adultery. Norm prevention is more effective in keeping things that are not good. Lower his gaze, the term child study groups ghadul Bashar is a very good beginning. "Say to the believing women:" Let them hold views and keep his cock ... "(Surat an-Nur: 31)
Looking even forbidden, let alone more than that. Are there people who are dating keep the view? Are there people who are dating without a get together and two-pair in a quiet place? Where men who go out there without hold - hold here?
Know, O my brother, if you love the man with the wrong path, then the end would be wrong, sorry. The man like that is not really serious in having love with you. If it is serious, he will enter through the doors officially as taught by our religion. Not familiar with dating let alone hang out. Most of them admitted seeing just for having fun, then do not be surprised if the left just after the 'honey' suck and throw yourself away.
Men, especially in contemporary times, think a thousand times-once again-, a thousand times to choose the life partner who is not a virgin and marry a woman where that has been 'down the engine', slang terms boy now.
While many young women now suda loss, minimal self-esteem. Even if virginity is still intact, the others? Therefore, keep your pride, because mekarmu only once ...!
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